OY'VEY STOP KVETCHING!
For the New Year a good read would be(The Power of Now [Marc Allen, Canada 1999] author Eckhart Tolle suggest a powerful four point approach to dealing with problems so that one will never have to complain in his or her life
1) FIX IT. If you don't like what you get. Fix it
2) GET SOMEONE TO FIX IT. If you can't fix it yourself, talk to someone who can fix it. There is no point going around in circles complaining to people who can't do anything about it.
3) WALK AWAY FROM IT. If you can't fix it yourself and can't find someone who can, go somewhere where the problem does not exist.
4) ACCEPT IT. IF YOU CANNOT DO ANY OF THE ABOVE-- Then accept it, learning to accept things the way they are instead of the way you wish they were, will take a big burden off your shoulders.*-)
Lizard,do you counsel women ?
I leave that for OPRA and DR Phil:D
Great advice Lizard
- 4 Forums
- 32.9 K Topics
- 272.4 K Posts
- 187 Online
- 42.2 K Members