Meeting other singles!

I'm not single, but one of my single friends told me that he wished someone had told him beforehand to "bring his own." 🙂 I would be interested to hear any answers to this as I do have some single friends who feel that it is impossible to meet someone if you don't like going out to the bars all of the time.

Amen , thats so true .Iam working on mine right now , the prerec for all the guys I meet is as follows :
Do you like water?
Do you like Islands?
Would you follow me to Paradise? hahaha .
Most guys are like hell yeah ! Will keep you all updated.

Have you been to or though about joining the historical society, St Georges Gardens and their organizations, friends of Denmark...there are several social groups on the island that always seem to need volunteers and helpers. I even think that Whim needs some volunteers!
Although most any group that I have ever been with on the island...they always seem to end up with a drink in hand sometime during the day or later at the local watering holes!!!

I found my husband on StX - and it wasn't witha drink in his hand!! Lol - it is hard to find other younger people to make friends with if you are not a boozehound or just dislike bars.
Volunteerism is always a good thing to do for its own sake. The best advice is to have a full and satisying life and then people will migrate to your positive attitude. At least thats what they all say......try running over likely looking candidates with your cart at KMart as an alternative. Take classes at the UVI, get involved with eco groups, join theater group, etc if the KMart approach doesn't appeal.

As long as fidelity isn't an issue - you should have no problem finding a man on STX. Seems that they believe that "the more the merrier" pertains. This has come from both island guys and stateside transplants.

Good luck - I say bring your own - or adopt the same attitude. But don't come down here looking for the "one and only" to be your "one and only". I don't see that happen much - unless you go to church.

In reference to bringing your own, I have seen so many couples come down here, at least to St. Thomas, end up separating in a flash. It's quite a phenomenon! D come down here if your relationship is on the mend either!

RL